Not to use and abuse, or be fake & pretend. On the realness, since guys claim every girl is the same and plays games. . . . . What can a girl, an adult 20 + s girl, do not be a Supposed to like every other female letdown? Personality wise. A lot of men Seem to run When times get rough, or get bored A Few Effective weeks. anything a girl can do to be different and stand out?