I Have Tried A Few dating websites, yahoo personals & fixups by friends. I do not think I am Being Unreasonable in my list of qualities I am looking for. I work too much (70 hrs a week), Have a child (not living with me), beens Twice married, make plenty of money, live in a beautiful city. I am bipolar and stable, so I do not really think That Is year end. I only Have A Few Requirements of a potential mate – employed, intelligent, no kids live in, loves cats, that ‘Would my child like him, a moral person, more spiritual Than religious, Does not want more childern, close to or older Than my age (my age Being 39), not a fanatic about sports (ie. watching Every sporting event on TV), kind and thoughtful. . . . . . . Is this too much to ask? What am I doing wrong? Help, any suggestions Would Be appreciated.