My husband and married five years Have Been. About two years ago he lied to me about contact with his ex. Then A Few months later while he was in school (sub school) he joined an online adult personals site (I found this Because he paid for it out of our checking account attached). I really love him and I have wanted to put all of this behind me. I have a strange feeling he is keeping something from me now. I have no proof just a feeling (i had this feeling right before I caught him in past lies). He has-been great the last couple of years and I feel terrible doubting him feel this goal is keeping me up at night. My friends say I am being silly and That It is psychological. They want me to seek therapy. My husband does not want to tell to a therapist Because he is afraid it will get out (he is military and he does not want his career ruined). He thinks we can get through this if we just deal with it Ourselves. Can you get over trust issues kind of thesis or will I be suspicious the rest of our lives.