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My husband lies. What should I do?

My husband of three years is a liar! I come downstairs and he is closing down windows on the computer like crazy. Im not a idiot I know he is looking at porn. I have attacked him before looking at porn is ok. I would prefer he not do it while me and his son are awake Both upstairs and purpose whatever. I do not want to be lied to. When I catch him in the lie he will admit it when i ask why he lies he says he was raised to believe you lie about porn and masturbation. This morning I came downstairs and he was on his back doing something berry When he saw me he threw his phone down and would not let me pick it up. That Seemed suspicious. I wish all porn was he lied about its not intended. Last year he signed up one year adult personals site doing some research aim Effective I know he did not have time to meet anyone Actually before I found it. A few weeks Effective adult personals site the thing our cell phone bill cam in n saw He Has bee talking to his ex girlfriend. I Asked him and he lied even though I had the bill. After three days he confessed. He Offered to go to marriage counseling but I do not know if it will help. I love him but I do not Trust him. Can you ever get that Backi wish I knew why he lied. We actually get great (except for the lies). We Spend a lot of time together. Our sex life is very healthy. He says he loves me and is happy. My best friend thinks maybe my husband is just not mature enough for marriage and why he is That is acting out


  1. You won’t be able to trust him again, ever, because he will not stop lying. It seems to be as natural to him as breathing.

  2. doesn’t he have something to fix? he seems to have too much time on his hands. get out with him more often

  3. A relationship does not work without the trust honey. You should do what you think is best for you, if you´re feeling stressed out trying to keep an eye on him, then you should think about your situation. People should not always have to wonder if their partner is unfaithful.

    Good luck to you sweety, wish you all the best.

  4. His lying is the least of your problems. You need to give counseling a try.

  5. It really sounds like he has a sex addiction. Im very sorry for what you’re going through. I know it is very hard to deal with. It is frustrating!!!! He needs to admit that he has a problem before anything else can be done. Usually a man will not admit their problem (because of their pride) until they get their “life flashed in front of them”. I’m using that analogy in context with this example: You and your son need to move out for a while. Tell your husband that you are no longer happy with him because of his sex addiction. And he needs help. Dont even let him think there is a chance of getting you back! If he thinks your playing a game then he wont take you serious!

  6. give him a break

  7. My fiance actually broke his phone rather than let me read his texts…hmmm something was up, huh?

    Somethings up with your guy, too and if it was just looking at pics or vids of anonymous people, he wouldn’t be so crazy about hiding it.

    Building back trust is like trying to unscramble an egg. If he’s willing to go to counseling with you, go for it. It might work, or it might make you see you don’t want to be with him.

  8. he sounds like a waist of time, once a liar always a liar.. porn is one thing and dating/sex sites and talking to the ex is just rediculous, i would say dont waist your time with him anymore. you cant rebuild trust, it just doesnt work..

  9. He seems like trash. You deserve better than that.

  10. Honestly and true you need to find out why he lies….MEANING – found out why he was talking to his ex, or why did he feel the need to sign up for the adult personal site? What is his reason for him doing these things? And when you have the reason then you can make the decision as to what to do. If his reasons are something that you can fix, then work on. If you fix the problem then you will not have to worry about him SNEAKY and doing THEM again and then lying about it.

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