i have this heart wrenching overwhelming feeling That something is going on That I’m not bieng Informed of. . . (I DO HAVE a history of bieng jealous tho) my husband is on TDY (so no, i can not just go to him), in the army, he’s in boston. he rarely ever calls he calls and when to it’s late at night. . . he tells me he Has not Called Because he’s been out all day “sight seeing” with his friends. . . he tells me stories of how his friends will go out to bars, and all the fun things they do i also was in his email ounces (not intentionally snooping, i had a legit reason to be in there) and stumbled across a message from and adult personals (where you hook up with people fo “no strings attached” sex) and i found his profile. . . . he plays video games and the name on the profile alias was his game. he said this (copied and pasted i just it off the site): Know how to handle myself. good in bed. very experimental. promised great sex to-any woman willing to try Looking For: A woman for 1-on-1 sexdid i mention he’s been bored of our sex life for a while? i Confronted him about it and he Said It Was not his, he Said it was his friend’s. . but why his friend Would Have used HIS alias? and why did he get so offended When he learned i opened his mail? anything if he did not Have to hide he would not care right? everyone says he’s not the kind of guy to do that. . . they say he worshipps the ground i walk on. . . so why do i feel like I’m bieng lied to?? do you follow your gut instincts or your knowledge?