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Reading “Personals” Ads Daily?

My husband reads the meetings “local” ads for swingers and threesomes almost every day. (He did not know I know. And he has an email account with which he has never spoken.) I know he visited swingers clubs and where others go to “connect”. But some people go just to watch what films.Est-reading encounters every day and go to these clubs mean he is probably responding to advertisements and meetings, or is it equally likely that just curious?

11 comments

  1. He’s more than curious………

  2. You need to talk to him about this directly before it gets out of hand. Open honest communication is always the key to happy healthy relationships.

    Good luck.

  3. Why don’t you go with him? It’s weird if that’s going on behind your back in your marriage.

  4. well for me when i found my husband on singles websites it was cuz he was messing around with the women on there… btw a friend of mine saw him and told me to go look so i emailed him from a fake account and met him for a drink imagine his suprize when i showed up instead of what he was expecting to meet up with that nite… set him up and find out.

  5. answering ads and meeting people. get a private eye asap. my girlfriend caught herpes from her cheating hubby. sooo be very careful he doesn’t bring home stds, and share it with you and your kids through the toilet, cups and dishes.

    Hire a detective and get serious proof, i am sorry to hear this… I found porn on my husbands comp.. and im so mad b/c he preaches how much he doenst like porn and refuses to watch it with me. wtf? soo i kind of understand how you feel. stay strong and always get solid proof before you take serious actions. if you find out that he is just watching then confront him and offer to join, if your okay with things like that.

  6. Its a good thing your not a private detective. You have to know he is up to something! I can’t believe you put up with that crap! Have some self confidence and decency and tell him to stop immediately or your leaving his two or three timing no good butt!

  7. This would creep me out.

  8. my dad reads them and makes fun of them. sad since he met my mom though newspaper personals….

    you need to talk to him……

  9. I read the personals a lot but only to get a kick out of what people put in them. If he is going to clubs then I would be asking some questions and the email account would raise some eyebrows too. Even if he is just going because he is curious, curiosity did kill the cat and he is walking on a fine line of making a big mistake. It isn’t long before people who go down that road are walking that line as well. My opinion is that no married person has any business going into those places unless the spouse is up for it too and even there I personally think swinging can open a whole can of worms that a couple shouldn’t open. JMO

  10. He is playing! Make sure he wears a condom when he is bed with you so you don’t catch something you can’t get rid of.Sorry.

  11. His secret life is out of control. Monitor what he does and where he goes. Then file for a separation. He’ll know you’re serious. Counseling is next to determine whether or not this is worth saving. No trust = trouble.

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